Shirley Whetstone, 84, of Southport, died May 4.

Survivors include her partner of 30 years, Irven Saalman; two sons, Paul Whetstone and his wife Barbara of Trumbull, and George Whetstone and his wife Mary of Poughkeepsie, N.Y.; two sisters, Constance Gault, of New York, N.Y., and Naomi Williams of Philadelphia, Pa., two grandchildren, and a niece and nephew.

She will be interred at a later date in the Memorial Garden at the Unitarian Church of Westport. Memorial donations can be made to the Unitarian Church of Westport, 10 Lyons Plains Road, Westport, or to the ASPCA.